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	<description>Hope for When It Hurts</description>
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		<title>Comment on Speechless by Judy Blore</title>
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		<dc:creator>Judy Blore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Jul 2010 18:46:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Amen to this. It is SO good to know that the Spirit takes my illogical, scrambled mumbles and makes sense of that, turning them into a meaningful prayer. Knowing this gives me peace.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amen to this. It is SO good to know that the Spirit takes my illogical, scrambled mumbles and makes sense of that, turning them into a meaningful prayer. Knowing this gives me peace.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Two people who loved a child by Tim</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 26 May 2010 19:54:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree. However, the two must come together and share what they have been hearing from the support individual or group. If not, I feel it could lead to additional sharing of other matters and eventually draw the couple apart. Just a thought.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree. However, the two must come together and share what they have been hearing from the support individual or group. If not, I feel it could lead to additional sharing of other matters and eventually draw the couple apart. Just a thought.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The hard work of Easter by Judy Blore</title>
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		<dc:creator>Judy Blore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Mar 2010 17:43:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>His motive was love - love for His Father and for each of us. My response is to be deeply humbled and to love Him back.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>His motive was love &#8211; love for His Father and for each of us. My response is to be deeply humbled and to love Him back.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The hard work of Easter by Barbara Lefferts</title>
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		<dc:creator>Barbara Lefferts</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Mar 2010 14:55:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for the reminder of Jesus&#039; grief and His submission to His Father&#039;s will.  There was hard work at Easter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for the reminder of Jesus&#8217; grief and His submission to His Father&#8217;s will.  There was hard work at Easter.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Whole Being Grieves by Judy Blore</title>
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		<dc:creator>Judy Blore</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Feb 2010 20:07:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dear Elisa, 

Thank you so much for your comments and encouragement. 

I agree that everyone who has lost someone they dearly loved is seeking deeper and spiritual understanding. Certainly, everyone who has buried one has the feeling that “this is not all there is!” There is a sense of on-going-ness that, even those who never believed in spiritual things, now feel. “St Augustine puts it this way:  our hearts are made for God, and only God satisfies our deepest souls.  Frederick Buechner puts it like this:  &quot;we have a God-shaped hole in us that can only be filled by God.” (quoted from a sermon of unknown origin.)   

I also know what you mean about healing others is essential to your own healing. One dad said “Helping helps.” May your search lead you to truth that truly helps both you and others. 

God bless,  Judy b</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dear Elisa, </p>
<p>Thank you so much for your comments and encouragement. </p>
<p>I agree that everyone who has lost someone they dearly loved is seeking deeper and spiritual understanding. Certainly, everyone who has buried one has the feeling that “this is not all there is!” There is a sense of on-going-ness that, even those who never believed in spiritual things, now feel. “St Augustine puts it this way:  our hearts are made for God, and only God satisfies our deepest souls.  Frederick Buechner puts it like this:  &#8220;we have a God-shaped hole in us that can only be filled by God.” (quoted from a sermon of unknown origin.)   </p>
<p>I also know what you mean about healing others is essential to your own healing. One dad said “Helping helps.” May your search lead you to truth that truly helps both you and others. </p>
<p>God bless,  Judy b</p>
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		<title>Comment on Your Whole Being Grieves by Elisa Medhus</title>
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		<dc:creator>Elisa Medhus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 03 Feb 2010 03:27:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I find your site both insightful and comforting. My son recently committed suicide . . .  Healing others seems to be important to my own healing process. Please keep up the good work. Your wisdom is sorely needed in a world that yearns for spirituality and a deeper understanding. xoxo  Elisa</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I find your site both insightful and comforting. My son recently committed suicide . . .  Healing others seems to be important to my own healing process. Please keep up the good work. Your wisdom is sorely needed in a world that yearns for spirituality and a deeper understanding. xoxo  Elisa</p>
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		<title>Comment on Acceptance – Belonging – Family by Tim Sheetz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Tim Sheetz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:39:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great job, Linda. A wonderful reminder.   Tim</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great job, Linda. A wonderful reminder.   Tim</p>
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